Living Without Lying
Monday, December 15th, 2008I watched the final episode of the latest Survivor last night and it sort of got me thinking. The premise of the game was the same as it has been for years, but this season seemed to be a little different. I’m not sure if the lying was at an all-time high or if the lying was just different.
Since Richard Hatch won the first Survivor, the game has always been about making alliances and working people to get to the top. If you’ve ever watched you know they edit this show to make it seem like someone will get blindsided only to see the obvious happen in the end. This season there was actually quite a few surprises and the game changed up to the end. How does the success in this game compare to success in real life? I mean, is Survivor an abbreviated look at how things really are?
Do good guys really finish last while those who will do anything, to include lying their pants off, make it to the top?
I work in an industry that you would think – you would really hope – has honesty at the forefront. Unfortunately, honesty in my occupation will only take you so far. After getting to a certain point there seems to be an equal amount of honest people and sketchy characters that keep on rising.
If we took an honest look at our society, how hard to you think it is for a truly honest person to succeed? Of course we could say there are all kinds of honest people who have made it, but what about the dishonest people who have made it and the people who are in the process “by any means necessary?”
Law professor Tamar Frankel says the following:
“Americans must demand of their leaders, of themselves, and of one another more honesty and trust and less cynicism — a Utopian ideal, but a necessary cultural aspiration.”
Don’t you think this is true of not only Americans but the world as a whole?


