Posts Tagged ‘race’

The Race Shouldn’t Be About Race

Thursday, October 9th, 2008

More and more this presidential race shouldn’t be about race.  If people, regardless of color, are voting either way based on the color of McCain or Obama’s skin, it is a sad reflection on what this country is all about.  The “United” in United States of America need not be overlooked right now.

We are at war right now.  I guess you could say we are at war times two right now actually.  One we know our reasoning, but the second one is still without real reason.  OK, we should know by now that oil is the reason for our presence in Iraq and some people – I’m not saying any names – make more money when we are at the pumps.  But I digress.  Isn’t the fact that young men and women, American men and women, have died at war more important than the color of one man’s skin?

Our retirement funds, nest eggs or whatever you call the money you may have saved has shrunk.  In addition to that, we are paying more for less for almost everything we buy.  If you ask me, when it comes to the well-being of my family the only color that matters is green – the green that I work so hard for and assume is still where I put it.

For years, we have had a medical system that doesn’t always take care of those who are less fortunate.  Meanwhile, those who can pay and those who practice medicine are fine – relatively speaking since we are talking about health.  One candidate will make way for cheaper health care, do you care if his skin doesn’t look like yours?

The importance of this election goes deeper than race.  This election comes at a pivotal time for America and we really can’t afford to cast our ballots based on whether we think the next president should be white or black.  Don’t you think it is ironic that the possibility exists for a black man to be president, a woman to become vice-president and we have so many question marks concerning our country?  If this election was taking place and everything was roses for us it would be to easy right?

What If…….

Monday, August 11th, 2008

I’m getting a late start today so let me jump right in.  Everyone likes to speculate, right?  So today, let’s speculate on …… well whatever:

1)  What If….. Obama wins the White House?

2)  What If….. McCain wins?

3)  What If….. Everyone practiced what they preached?

4)  What If….. People didn’t judge others?

5)  What If….. America was a communist country?

6)  What If….. Racial hatred didn’t exist?

7)  what If….. You lived forever?

8)  What If….. People were content with what they had instead of wishing/wanting more?

9)  What If….. Poverty didn’t exist?

10) What If….. Slavery never occurred?  What would America be like?

I know, I know.  Some people will say they don’t base their life on ‘what ifs.’  And that’s cool.  But, if you did, what are some ‘what ifs’ you would ponder?  I would love to hear your thoughts on this…..

Self-Hatred Within A Race– It Really Does Exists!

Monday, August 4th, 2008

This is a very touchy subject and some people are going to deny that self-hatred exists within a race. But, you know what? It does. How else would you describe the way Black people sometimes view each other? Before you answer this question, let me tell you why I brought this up. Last week, I watched the Tyra Banks show and it was a show filled with clips of some of her shows that dealt with race-related topics. In every one of those clips, she had Black people on her show who were saying discriminating and degrading things about Black people, as a whole. You talk about stereotypes! Black people are the worst at stereotyping their own! One of the topics that the Black people on her show were extremely stereotypical about was the different shades of skin tones that Black people have.

It is a well known fact that within the Black community that lighter skinned Blacks are, more times than not, treated differently than darker skinned Blacks. In fact, in the Black community, there used to be something called the Brown Paper Bag test. According to Urban Dictionary, in the early 1900s, the Brown Paper Bag test was commonly used “among upper class Black American societies and families to determine if a Black person was sufficiently white to gain admittance or acceptance. If your skin was darker than a brown paper bag, you did not merit inclusion. Thousands of Black institutions including the nation’s most eminent Black fraternity – Alpha Phi Alpha, Howard University, and numerous church and civic groups all practiced this discrimination.” Rivea Ruff of BlackCollegeView.com states it best when she says, “Though the brown paper bag test is antiquated and frowned upon as a shameful moment in African-American history, the ideals behind the practice still lingers in the African-American community.” How true (and unfortunate) this is and below is a perfect example of it still happening within the Black community.

In October of 2007, a Detroit, Michigan DJ came up with, what he considered to be a brilliant promotional plan for a party at a nightclub. He planned to allow light-skinned Black women into the club for free, which meant if you were thought to be a dark-skinned Black woman or somewhere in between dark-skinned and light-skinned, you would have to pay to enter the same party! Now, this DJ, who described himself as a dark-skinned Black man, says he was not trying to offend anyone — it was just a promotional thing. He was going to promote another night for Sexy Chocolate dark-skinned Black women as well as Sexy Caramel (which, I guess, was for Black women who had a skin tone that wasn’t light-skinned or dark-skinned). Amazing, huh? Of course, this party never got off the ground because once his promotional idea was broadcasted all over the Internet and by word of mouth, he received all sorts of angry emails and phone calls berating him for his actions. Do you see why this can be perceived as self-hatred? No? Think about this: according to Black Commentator, “history has shown that Black people with lighter skin were treated better. In the days of slavery, the dark-skinned Blacks worked in the fields while light-skinned Blacks worked in the house, hence the terms “field Negroes” and “house Negroes.” It got so bad, that not only did the slave owners, who were often responsible for the lighter shade of brown his slaves had, give lighter-skinned Blacks more respect, but so did the dark-skinned Blacks.”

This self-hatred mentality began during slavery and unfortunately continues to this day. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard Black people make derogatory references about the shade of another Black person’s skin tone. What other race does this? Or for that matter, what other race uses a derogatory and degrading term to describe itself? Yep, I’m talking about the use of the N word amongst Black people. The question I have is how does the Black community overcome this? Or is it even possible to overcome seeing as how it is so deeply ingrained into the Black community? I am very interested in hearing your comments to this topic.