Pastors Want Members To Have Sex
Saturday, November 15th, 2008“God says sex should be between a married man and a woman. I think it’s one of the greatest things you can do for your kids because so goes the marriage, so goes the family.”
The Reverend Ed Young believes society promotes promiscuity and he wants to reclaim sex for married couples. He said sex should be a nurturing, spiritual thing. Young is the founder of the Grapevine, a non-denominational “Mega Church” with about 20,000 members.
Pastor Paul Wirth, who founded the non-denominational Relevant Ministries almost 4 years ago, found biblical references that he says suggest Jesus disapproved of pre-marital sex and promoted sex in marriage. So, he believes people connect to God through life-long commitment.
Reverend Young is challenging his married members to have sex for seven days straight – he is going to practice what he preaches, something he says is normal them.
Earlier this year, Pastor Wirth challenged his single members to abstain from sex for 30 days and his married members to have sex every day.
I grew up going to church so I want to point out some things:
- Both churches are non-denominational and that means something. Non-denominational churches are kind of free to do whatever and they often do. Of course, their actions are meant to do one thing (my opinion): draw people in.
- I noticed Pastor Wirth wanted his single members to abstain from having sex which means he isn’t routinely preaching/teaching on single people not having sex.
- People must know, the Gospel is about the good news and in our current society people want to hear what sounds good to them. We used to take more direction, but now people don’t really want anyone telling them what to do. This is true of churches, the military, the government, school systems, police departments and the list could go on and on. So if someone is willing to say what people want to hear, they become popular and in this case “Mega.”
- I have never heard of anything like this before and I’m kind of speechless.


