18 Year Safe Haven
Friday, November 14th, 2008These are surely terrible times and everywhere we look we find evidence of desperation and what many believe is hopelessness. Since so many families seek safety, lawmakers have gone so great lengths to give people an out. But the great state of Nebraska takes the cake today and my mouth was figuratively left open after reading about what is happening there.
Safe Haven laws exist in virtually every state. The basic premise is this: when a parent feels like nothing else will work, they can drop their baby off at a hospital. Uh, unless you live in the state of Nebraska. While every other state uses “infant” in the law, Nebraska uses “child.” This may seem like a small difference, but this allows a parent to drop off their child, regardless of age, until they are old enough that they can legally kick them out.
This Nebraska law took effect in mid-July and since then more than half of the 33 children dropped off have been teenagers. Recognizing the problem, lawmakers are convening today for a special session - hopefully to change the wording from “child” to “infant.” So what do you think happened when residents heard about this special session? It is sickening (to me at least) to say, but some parents “rushed” to drop their children off before a change to the law was made.
I’m all for child safety and there should be a place for parents to go when/if things get to this point, but there is a point where this becomes ridiculous. Life is not always easy, but I couldn’t imagine a situation where a parent takes their 18 year-old son or daughter to a hospital to drop them off. To me this sounds like an adult who is not taking responsibility for being a parent.
If I’m wrong, I would love to hear reasons why this would be a good idea, but it would really have to be good. This is another sign of how time have changed and changed for the worse.
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